Did You See Bob Kerr's Column?

Did you see Bob Kerr's column in the Providence Journal about Family Service of RI's Walking School Bus program?

Check it out right here.

Video from Brighter Futures Luncheon

Thank you to all supporting our Brighter Futures luncheon yesterday!

In case you missed it, here's a report from WPRI!

Thank You!

Many thanks to all who made today's Brighter Futures luncheon a big success!  Congratulations to Education Commissioner Deborah Gist, our 2012 honoree!!

Photos and more soon!

AIDS Walk for Life is This Weekend!

This Sunday is the 27th annual AIDS Walk for Life, which benefits AIDS Project RI, providing a range of services relating to HIV/AIDS, including prevention and testing.

The event is held rain or shine, and takes place on the Rhode Island State House lawn facing the Providence Place Mall.

About 500 walkers are slated to participate.  There will be free anonymous HIV testing, free flu shots, music from the Providence Gay Men's Chorus and more.

This is a signature event for the City of Providence, so don't miss it!!

More info at www.aidsprojectri.org.

AIDS Project RI is a division of Family Service of RI.

Saluting Our Victim Services Team!

Family Service of RI's victim services team was honored Wednesday, September 12, 2012 with a Justice Award from Rhode Island Attorney General Peter F. Kilmartin. A ceremony took place at the Attorney General's office in downtown Providence.

The Justice Awards are given annually in recognition of an extraordinary commitment to justice and the community.  Our team was recognized for domestic violence prevention.

Attorney General Kilmartin invited past Attorneys General to present the awards, which were also given to Providence and East Providence police officers, and other individuals and organizations.

Former Attorney General James O'Neil presented the award to our team. Some of our team members are pictured below.

 (L-R) Jen Etue, Meghan Martinez, Christine Santos, Mr. O'Neil, Dr. Susan Erstling, Cathy Bour

Read a GoLocalProv report here. Read the Attorney General's press release here. See more photos here.

Receiving Justice Award from Attorney General

Rhode Island Attorney General Peter F. Kilmartin has named Family Service of RI a recipient of a Justice Award.

We're being recognized for the dedication and commitment of our victim services team to preventing domestic violence.

We will receive the award Wednesday night. 

Congrats to our team!

Read more here from GoLocalProv.

Walking School Bus Rolls

It was a rainy day as the new "Walking School Bus" program got into gear at Fogarty Elementary in South Providence as the school year began.

The program, developed by Family Service of RI's Providence Children's Initiative (PCI) team, is needed because PCI found children within walking distance of school missing class because of parental health, work schedules and other issues. 

With the "Walking School Bus" children walk to school along a defined route with "stops."  The students are supervised by trained adults.

"It is critically important that we be creative in finding ways to eliminate chronic absenteeism," said Dr. Susan Lusi, Providence's school superintendent.  "This simple, safe and healthy program will help to ensure that children arrive to school on time and are less likely to miss important lessons that cannot be captured through makeup work.  We hope this will serve as a model for additional schools in our district."

Learn more about the "Walking School Bus" from this report from WPRI.

To learn more about the Providence Children's Initiative, check out this short video.

Working in a Number of School Districts

I often write about our work in the Providence public schools, but did you know Family Service of RI is providing various human services in partnership with other school districts?  Our work helps students and their families overcome barriers to attendance, staying in school, and academic success.

In addition to Providence schools, we're also in the Central Falls, Exeter-West Greenwich and Westerly schools. And recently we started working in partnership with St. Patrick Academy in Providence.

And how could I forget--we have a school ourselves called Mount Pleasant Academy.

So the start of the school year is a very special time of year here.

Learn more by perusing our Directory of Services.

--Stephen L. Hug

Welcome Back to Fogarty!

Our Providence Children's Initiative team is at Fogarty Elementary today welcoming  students & parents back, and letting them know about the Walking School Bus and more.

As you may know the Providence Children's Initiative has been a leader in addressing absentee and tardiness issues.

Check out this recent Providence Journal story.

Is summer really over?

--Stephen L. Hug

Back to School!

It's starting to get exciting!

Back to school time!

Our friends at GoLocalProv have put together a handy checklist of stuff to track down if you have a young one heading to class.

And JC Penney has free haircuts for K-6.  Check it out here.

--Stephen L. Hug

Saluting Commissioner Gist

Photo by Frank Curran

Haven't updated the blog for a little while because I've been working on our upcoming Brighter Futures luncheon, which this year honors Rhode Island Commissioner of Elementary and Secondary Education Deborah A. Gist.

It starts at noon on Tuesday, October 2, which really isn't that far away, as the summer, I'm sorry to say, begins slipping away!  But late summer, early fall is a great time in New England!  Something to look forward to.

The Brighter Futures award luncheon started back in 2005 as a way to recognize people and organizations helping to build Brighter Futures for Rhode Island's children.  It's also an important fundraiser for us, too. Past recipients include the PawSox and the Boston Red Sox, Senator Jack Reed, and Geoffrey Canada of the Harlem Children's Zone, an important inspiration for our work in South Providence.

Read more about the event here.  Hope you can join us!

And hope you get outside before the summer passes!

--Stephen L. Hug

Collaborating, on the Farm, to Improve Life for Children

Family Service of RI has an outstanding program called "Early Intervention," which helps very young children experiencing delays in one or more areas of development.

Recently, our Early Intervention team partnered with our friends at the Southside Community Land Trust and their City Farm to help children improve their communications skills and experience a farm setting.

All chronicled in a lovely story called "Future Farmers Get a Kick Out of City Farm" by Eco RI News.


--Stephen L. Hug

Walking School Bus Creating Buzzzz

It was really great to hear all of the positive comments about the Walking School Bus program launched by the Providence Children's Initiative, a program of Family Service of RI.

Here's a TV report put together by a new reporter in our area.

He's Andrew Adamson from WPRI and he did a particularly good job capturing the Walking School bus concept.

Wish I could embed in this blog post, but Blogger's not letting me. So here's a link.  Please check it out.

--Stephen L. Hug

Have You Heard of a Walking School Bus?

Family Service of RI's Providence Children's Initiative program introduced their school attendance map and the "walking" school bus today.  A walking what?

It's all about promoting school attendance.

To learn you have to show up!  It's fundamental.

Read more here.

Looking for a Great Cause? Walk to Fight HIV/AIDS!

Sunday, September 23 will see hundreds of dedicated walkers on the Rhode Island State House lawn walking to fight HIV/AIDS.

Will you join them?  Will you form a team of family and friends?

Help a great cause, AIDS Project RI, which is a division of Family Service of RI.

Take the first step by clicking here for more information.

Rhode Island KIDS COUNT Reports on Children in Immigrant Families

Rhode Island KIDS COUNT is a terrific resource for child welfare information.

Recently they did an "issue brief" on children in the state's immigrant families, a report which received a lot of media coverage.

Read it yourself right here.

We salute our friends at RI KIDS COUNT and thank them for the important work they're doing!

--Stephen L. Hug

Do You Facebook? Do You Tweet?

Family Service of RI has a robust presence in the world of Facebook and Twitter.

We have about 950 followers for each, and we hope you will be one of 'em.

To connect to our Facebook page please click here.

If you are on Twitter, check us out here.

We provide updates several times a week, depending on what's going on.

Please join us!  Thanks!

--Stephen L. Hug

At the Renacer Festival & Family Fair on Saturday

Family Service of RI's Providence Children's Initiative team will be at the Renacer Festival and Family Fair on Saturday, starting at 3:30 p.m., passing out information related to the work of "PCI" as it is known.

Takes place at Roger Williams Park, off Broad Street, in Providence.

According to a flyer, the event is "a sign of hope, unity, faith, family and support.  Our hope is to somehow motivate the families in our cities to not give up under current diffficulties and pressures of life."

Couldn't find a webpage, but did find a volunteer page that does have more info.  Check that out here.

AIDS Walk for Life "Pre-Event" Tonight!

Thank to our friends at Cuban Revolution, tonight AIDS Project RI, a division of Family Service of RI, will be signing up folks for the annual AIDS Walk for Life, coming in September.

You might call it a "pre-event" or "prequel" I suppose.

Starting at 6  tonight at Cuban Revolution's 60 Valley Street, Providence location, teams will be forming and money will be raised.  All to fight HIV/AIDS!

More info about tonight's event can by found by clicking right here.

Thank you Cuban Revolution!

--Stephen L. Hug

Kids in the Wake of Tragedy

There were a number of interviews with Family Service of RI's Dr. Susan Erstling in the wake of the tragedy in Colorado.

Dr. Erstling, who heads our trauma and loss center, has a wealth of experience in dealing with trauma and other issues after violent incidents. 

Since we, of course, are many miles away from Colorado, the interviews focused primarily on how best to help children deal with the intense media coverage that is common after such events.

I have compiled below links to various interviews for your convenience.

GoLocalProv's here.
ABC 6's here.
WPRO's here.
Patch's  here.
Providence En Espanol here.

If there are others, I will add to this list.

We appreciate the media's help in raising awareness of children's issues following this terrible event.

--Stephen L. Hug

Dr. Susan Erstling on WPRO Monday Morning

Family Service of RI's Susan Erstling, Ph.D. will be on the WPRO Morning News with Tara Granahan and Andrew Gobeil Monday morning at 8:10 a.m. taking about the psychological aftermath of the tragedy in Colorado.

Dr. Erstling heads the Family Service of RI trauma and loss center, and is a founder of the RI State Victim Assistance Academy, which just kicked off its 4th year a few days ago.  She has a wealth of experience working with victims, witnesses and responders in the aftermath of violent incidents, including shootings.  She and her team also provide trainings to professionals across the state regarding the effects of trauma.

WPRO is located at 630 on the AM radio dial, and 99.7 on the FM dial.  It streams live here.

--Stephen L. Hug

Parent Tips on Media Coverage in the Wake of the Colorado Tragedy

Family Service of RI is the local site for the National Child Traumatic Stress Network, offering  tips for parents regarding media coverage in the aftermath of the recent tragedy in Colorado:

 --Limit your child's exposure to media coverage. The younger the child, the less exposure s/he should have. You may choose to eliminate all exposure for very young children. Consider family activities away from media, including the Internet and social media, such as Facebook and Twitter.

--If they are watching, watch what they watch. Read what they read. Discuss the news stories with them, asking about their thoughts and feelings. Ask what they've seen on the Internet, including in social media.

For more, please click here.

Whooping Cough Vaccination Clinics

The RI Department of Health is holding vaccination clinics today and Monday, 4 to 7 p.m. in North Kingstown.

The department has confirmed six cases of pertussis, often called "whooping cough."

Details on the where, when and why of these clinics available here.

Say You Want A Revolution?

You’re invited to a CHARITYRevolution, Thursday, July 26, at Cuban Revolution, 60 Valley Street, Providence to support AIDS Project RI and the 27th Annual AIDS Walk for Life.

The event focuses on raising money and getting teams and individuals to sign up for the walk, Sunday, September 23, starting at the State House lawn.

The CHARITYREVOLUTION event July 26 begins at 6 p.m., and there will be light refreshments and plenty of free parking.
 
For more information please click here.

Many thanks to our friends at Cuban Revolution! Please support them all year long!

AIDS Project RI is a division of Family Service of RI.

Improving Care for Crime Victims

The fourth-annual Rhode Island State Victim Assistance Academy starts this Wednesday, July 18, with an opening session focusing on the justice system.
 
Family Service of Rhode Island and Roger Williams University Justice System Training and Research Institute have partnered to provide this statewide effort to improve the quality of service to crime victims.

Day-long classes, beginning at 8:30 a.m., take place July 18, August 1, August 8, August 15 and August 22 at the University’s Baypoint Inn and Conference Center in Portsmouth, Rhode Island.

Topics include “Impact of Crime on Victims: Trauma, PTSD, and Direct Services,”“Working with LGBTQQ Youth,” “Cultural Competency in Working with Victims,” “Ethics in Victim Services,” “Victim’s Issues in Mental Health,” “Caring for Elder Victims,” and more..

The Academy is attended by professionals who work with victims and survivors of crime.

Have a Cool Drink and Help Homeless Women & Children

 Starbucks at 99 East Main RI, Middletown, RI loves Family Service of RI affiliate Lucy's Hearth!

They are collecting summer fun things like sunscreen, beach towels, bug spray, sunglasses, swim diapers, bathing suits and similar items for the moms and children living at Lucy's Hearth.

Also looking for twin size mattress bedding, formula and diapers.

So if you're in that area, why not stop by and bring along a little something to help homeless mothers and children.

A big thank you to our friends at Starbucks!

MSNBC Cares

The network of "Morning Joe" has picked up NBC 10's Barbara Morse Silva's report regarding our AIDS Project RI's division "Testing Together" program.

Don't know if MSNBC aired her report, but it made it to the website at the very least.  Check it out here.

We appreciate the support in getting the word out about this important, life-saving program.

NBC 10's Report on HIV "Testing Together"

NBC 10's Barbara Morse Silva visited our AIDS Project RI division on Monday to learn more about "Testing Together," the new program in which couples are tested for HIV at the same time.

To see the report, please click here.

Many thanks to Barbara and NBC 10!

Our Condolences

We are greatly saddened by the recent passing of Family Service of RI's Leo Sime, a Restorative Specialist/Coach based at Central Falls High School.

We extend our condolences to his family, his friends, the Restorative Team and all members of the FSRI community who had the opportunity to know him.

We also extend our condolences to the Central Falls High School students, families, faculty and staff whose lives he enriched through his work in the community.

"Testing Together" Praised by Leading HIV/AIDS MDs

In late June we announced that Fanily Service of RI's  AIDS Project RI division was launching a couples HIV testing program called "Testing Together."

We were pleased to see today that two leading HIV/AIDS doctors have praised the program in an article on Edge on the Net.

Congrats to AIDS Project RI's executive director Tom Bertrand and his team on this recognition.  More importantly, thanks Tom and team for fighting HIV/AIDS through this and other innovative programs.

--Stephen L. Hug

Service Above Self

As we mark the birth of our nation, thought it would be fitting to salute an outstanding U.S. and now international service organization, the Rotary Club. Its motto: "Service Above Self."

More specifically, I'd like to salute the work of the Rotary Club of Providence--and to take time to recognize the recent election of its 102nd president, Barbara Harris. 102nd!

I'm very proud to be a member of the Rotary Club of Providence, which is one of the oldest and largest service organizations around.

And I'm pleased that Family Service of RI is supportive of my participation in this great organization, which holds a range of community activities that raise money for grants and other good works in the City of Providence.

Learn more at http://www.providencerotary.org/. And check out this GoLocalProv story about Providence Rotary's recent grant-making.

And congrats to Barbara, who started her one-year  term July 1.

She's past president of the College Hill Neighborhood Association, and has served on the board of the Jewish Community Center and the Jewish Seniors Agency, both in Providence.  She is also currently an elected member of the Democratic Ward 2 Committee on Providence’s East Side neighborhood.

She has a law degree from Suffolk University, an M.A. in art history from Boston University, and a B.A. in art history from Simmons College.  She’s a former teacher of art history at Westfield State College and Boston University. And she's a talented oil painter, holding exhibits in the region.

Congrats, Barbara, and best wishes!

--Stephen L. Hug

New Facebook Policy?

Anybody know about this new Facebook policy? Got this off a Facebook posting from the Middletown, RI Patch.

"Due to Facebook's new policy, only about 10% of people that 'like' a fan page will see the status updates. In order to see all posts and notifications just click/hover over the 'Liked' button (beneath our page's cover photo) & hit the 'show in news feed' option. This will allow you to see all of our posts. (PLEASE SHARE!)."

Hmmm...This will certainly reduce the effectiveness of Facebook pages if all of the previous "likes" have to click on to be sure they're getting all the newsfeeds.

 If you have any information on this, please leave a comment. I Googled this and couldn't find anything and went through Facebook help...nothing either!  Maybe I'm just not seeing it.

 Meanwhile, "like" the Family Service of RI page, and the page of our AIDS Project RI division, and of our affiliate Lucy's Hearth.  And please be sure you hit the "show in newsfeed" option too under the "like" button.

And since they were kind enough to post, why not "like" the Middletown Patch page too!

This is getting complicated, isn't it?

Thanks!

--Stephen L. Hug

Believe It or Not, the Year is Ending!

It's almost the New Year for organizations that operate on a July 1 to June 30 fiscal year.  So, Saturday night is kind of a fiscal New Year's Eve!

Of course, any fireworks you may spot will be because we're just days away from the 4th!

Can you help Family Service of RI end the fiscal year on a positive note?   More importantly, can you help us help thousands of children and families in crisis across Rhode Island?

Did you know that:

• 6 out of 10 of the people we serve are 18 years of age or younger?

• More than 80% of the people we serve have low incomes?

• Over half of the people we serve belong to minority communities?

• One in 7 of the people we serve speaks another language at home?

Our services include a range of critical programs for abused children, children with educational issues, crime victims and many others.  Check out our directory of services for a better picture of what we do.

You can donate on-line here, or send your check by Saturday, June 30 to

Family Service of RI

Attn: Finance Office

P.O. Box 6688

Providence, RI 02940-6688

Questions?  Give me a call at 401-519-2274.

Thank you! And--Happy New Year!!

--Stephen L. Hug

Shout Out to News Media

Today is National HIV Testing Day, an annual observance that has taken place since 1995 to encourage people to know their HIV status so they can get medical care and take steps to prevent spreading the virus.

Of course, every day is the national day of something or other, a news editor once remarked to me years ago.

That's probably true.  And organizations put out press releases promoting their special day as news.

We at Family Service of RI did, since our AIDS Project RI division is a leader in HIV testing and is introducing a new couples HIV testing initiative this week.

Local news organizations--maybe even national ones--are short-staffed these days, and no doubt are overwhelmed by such press releases, even as they chase down the latest political controversy, local tragedy or what have you.

Nonetheless, some did provide coverage--it's difficult to know every one, because it's impossible to monitor all of the media outlets, even in a tiny state like Rhode Island.  And everything is not on-line, particularly television and radio.

But here are the ones we know about that worked in our press release about HIV testing into their reporting day, and they have our thanks.  If you know of others, please put in the "comments" section.

Many thanks to WPRO's Andrew Gobeil and Tara Granahan for interviewing AIDS Project RI's Tom Bertrand on their prime-time morning show. Thanks to the station for giving the story prominence on their website, too.  Thank you, also, to RI Public Radio.

A salute, too, to the Associated Press, which picked up the story and distributed it throughout the country (Maybe the world!). Thanks to the Providence Journal,  Boston.com, fifty miles to the north, and believe it or not, the San Francisco Chronicle and The Republic, located in Columbus, Indiana!

If you spotted coverage beyond these outlets, leave a note in the comment section.  Chances are I missed somebody.  Plus, some outlets may be doing stories about our new HIV "testing together" program in the days ahead.  We salute them in advance!!

--Stephen L. Hug

"Testing Together" Marks National HIV Testing Day

An innovative program—called Testing Together—is being launched this week at AIDS Project RI in conjunction with National HIV Testing Day—Wednesday, June 27th.

Now couples and individuals can get free rapid HIV tests at AIDS Project RI. The program challenges conventional practices in the United States where HIV testing is usually private and for individuals only.

Testing Together allows couples to come in for testing together and get their HIV test results minutes later, while sitting side-by-side. At most clinics, a person who asks if his or her partner can be there when learning the test result is denied because of patient confidentiality concerns. As part of Testing Together, individuals provide verbal consent that they are willing to go through the entire HIV testing process together, including receiving results at the same time and in the same room.

 “Getting an HIV test can be difficult for some people—and telling your partner the results can be even more difficult,” said AIDS Project RI executive director Thomas Bertrand. “Testing Together provides an opportunity for partners to be tested together, and get their test results together, with a trained counselor present to help talk about the results. Testing Together and receiving results together can start an ongoing healthy conversation between partners about HIV, their relationship, and building a protection plan together.”

AIDS Project RI counselors are trained on how to deliver test results, with particular emphasis on how to tell partners the most difficult news: one partner has the virus and the other doesn't. With these so-called "HIV discordant" couples, counselors have a great opportunity to reduce the spread of the virus by helping the couple learn ways to protect the uninfected partner, primarily through correct and consistent condom use and making sure people with HIV are getting appropriate medical care. Counselors also talk with couples about what to do next, including agreements they may want to make with each other about sex and health.


To mark National HIV Testing Day, AIDS Project RI will be providing rapid HIV testing for indivduals and couples on Wednesday, June 27th from 11:00 am to 5:00 pm at its 404 Wickenden St., Providence, RI, location. Testing is available on a walk-in or appointment basis on that day. To make an appointment call 401-207-8377 or email takecharge@aidsprojectri.org. Testing is also regularly available every Tuesday from 4:00 pm to 6:00 pm on a walk-in basis, as well as any day of the week from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm on an appointment basis. When possible, couples are encouraged to make an appointment for testing, although it is not required.

Bertrand stresses, “AIDS Project RI welcomes all couples, straight and gay, who may be in new or long-term relationships to consider coming in for testing. The testing is painless, free, and anonymous, and all of the counselors are well-trained and very friendly. It’s never been easier to find out your status. Knowing your HIV status can provide you with a great peace-of mind. According to the national data, nearly one in five people who are infected with HIV don’t know their status, and many people get infected from their primary partners.”

For more information about HIV testing, please click here.  AIDS Project RI is a division of Family Service of RI.

Tune to WPRO Tuesday Morning

Tom Bertrand, executive director of our AIDS Project RI division, will be interviewed on the WPRO morning show with Andrew Gobeil and Tara Granahan on Tuesday morning at 6:20.

Tom will be talking about the new HIV couples testing program unveiled this week by AIDS Project RI.  Called "Testing Together," it challenges conventional practices in the United States where HIV testing is usually private and for individuals only.  Learn more here.

So tune to 630 on the AM dial, or 99.7 FM. Or stream it live.

Meet the Staff: Dave Cooley

Dave Cooley started at Family Service of RI back in 1990, when the agency had about 50 employees and just a few properties.

These days we have 300+ employees and a good number of properties, including additional group homes for abused children, our South Providence office, and  Mount Pleasant Academy. Dave played a key role in opening all these properties, and on a daily basis he and his team make sure the heat works, the lights are on, the roof doesn't leak, and so much more.

Maybe that’s why his day often begins at 7 a.m., and he’s on-call all weekend. His official title is “operations/project manager,” but to many he’s “Super Dave.”

But--despite this demanding schedule, he’s never too busy to help someone in need. 

 “I try to hold on to my ‘yesterdays,’” he said. “The way I do that is to help somebody every day, maybe even just holding the door. Chances are they’ll come back some day and say thank you. That’s nice.”

He no doubt reflects the spirit of his late grandfather, a community organizer who has a school named after him.

Nobody embodies the spirit of Family Service of Rhode Island more than Dave Cooley. He’s a treasure not only for the agency, but for the state as a whole.

Wherever you go you bump into people who are fans of his. He’s one of the most liked and respected people in Rhode Island.

--Stephen L. Hug

Updated List of Cooling Centers

The heat is on, day two!

Hope you are faring well.  Unfortunately, not everybody has air conditioning, and this heat can create health challenges.

With that in mind, the Rhode Island Emergency Management Agency on noon Thursday updated its list of cooling centers across the state.

Some of the new ones are the Weaver Memorial Library in East Providence and the Pawtucket Public Library.

To see the list, which they are due to update at 4 p.m. today, click here.  If you go to this link later today they should have posted an update.

Cooling center info available by phone by dialing 2-1-1.

Please share this information with anyone who may be in need.

Thank you!

--Stephen L. Hug

The Heat is On!

As this is being written, it's 90 degrees in South Providence!  And, possibly by coincidence, we lost power in our building for a little while.  But everything is working okay now, including the air conditioner.

Wow! The heat is on!  At least for a couple days!

Some helpful links to help deal with the heat, particularly if  you don't have air conditioning.

Providence Mayor Angel Taveras and the Providence Emergency Management Agency have a listing of the city's cooling centers as well as hot weather tips. Click here.

The Rhode Island Emergency Management Agency has a listing of cooling centers outside of Providence here.

If you take the bus, today (Wednesday) is an air quality alert day and you can ride the bus for free. Details here.

Last we heard, this heat will be short-lived, and a more moderate weekend is on the way.

Welcome summer!

--Stephen L. Hug

More Than 100 Attending Sexual Health and Social Media Conference

More than 100 community and medical providers are registered to attend what is believed to be the state’s first-ever youth, sexual health and social media conference.

The event, developed by a number of organizations, takes place Thursday, June 21 from 9 am to 4 pm at the Roger Williams University Baypoint Residence and Conference Center, 144 Anthony Road, Portsmouth, Rhode Island.

 The conference is entitled: “Got UR Game On? Meeting the Sexual Health Needs of Rhode Island’s Youth.”

“We are very excited to see the high level of interest in this conference,” said Thomas Bertrand, executive director of AIDS Project Rhode Island, one of the sponsors. “It’s important because in recent years Rhode Island has seen an increase in unprotected sex and some sexually transmitted diseases among high-school students. In terms of HIV, we are seeing a rise among young gay/bisexual males in their 20s. Healthy behaviors to prevent HIV and STDs start in teenage years, and we want to see all our young people grow up healthy.”

The conference is intended for health care providers, educators, and other community leaders in Rhode Island to help them gain insights and improve their skills related to interacting with Rhode Island’s youth about sexual health issues.

“Attendance has maxed out,” said Bertrand.

Shannon Spurlock, of JSI Research and Training, Inc, which helped organize the conference, said “Young people deserve the whole truth about sexual health. Adults today need to be sources of reliable and relatable information, not just messages on pregnancy and disease prevention. We need to use a holistic approach to sexual wellness, instead of depending on scare tactics to keep young people safe and healthy.”

The featured keynote speaker is Tiffani Kisler, Ph.D., an assistant professor at the University of Rhode Island, who will be speaking about her research on the use of technology (i.e. sexting, texting, Facebook, Twitter) and its effect on psychological, sexual, and relational health.

The morning sessions will include a mix of presentations from local experts, as well as a special session where young people from Youth Pride, Inc., will share their thoughts and ideas about sexual health. The afternoon break-out sessions include hands-on training and skills building.

Conference speakers include Dr. Michele Forcier, Toby Simon, Dr. Laura Whitely, Annie Silvia, Megan Andelloux, Lisa Hoopis, and Aida Manduley.

A special emphasis of the conference is current and emerging issues in sexual health, as well as the role of technology and social media in young people’s lives.

Aida Manduly from Sojourner House, an event organizer, notes, “If we want to foster a sexually healthy and intelligent nation, state and community, we must take care to educate our youth in ways that are honest and relevant, not just factual. To this end, it's critical that we also train providers on the best ways to deliver that information and promote healthier dialogues around sexual health."

Conference sponsors include: AIDS Project RI, AIDS Care Ocean State, Bradley/Hasbro Children’s Research Center, Alpert Medical School at Brown University, JSI Research and Training, Inc., Lifespan/Brown/Tufts Center for AIDS Research, Pawtucket Prevention Coalition, Planned Parenthood of Southern New England, Rhode Island Department of Health, RI Association of Nurses in AIDS Care, Sojourner House, United Healthcare, Youth Pride RI and the YWCA of Rhode Island.

Sexting Discussion and More Saturday Morning on the Radio

Dr. Tiffani Kisler will be the guest at 7:10 a.m. on 630 WPRO & 99.7 FM on Saturday morning.

Talking about next week's conference regarding youth, sexual health and social media. 

One of the organizers is AIDS Project RI, a division of Family Service of RI.

She's an assistant professor at the University of Rhode Island who's done research regarding technology and its effect on youth psychological, sexual and relational health. 

She'll be interviewed live on the Saturday Morning News with Steve Klamkin.

--Stephen L. Hug

Elder Abuse the Focus on Friday

Friday, June 15, has been designated by President Obama as World Elder Abuse Awareness Day.

As noted in his proclamation:

Victims of elder abuse are parents and grandparents, neighbors and friends. Elder abuse cuts across race, gender, culture, and circumstance, and whether physical, emotional, or financial, it takes an unacceptable toll on individuals and families across our Nation. Seniors who experience abuse or neglect face a heightened risk of health complications and premature death, while financial exploitation can rob men and women of the security they have built over a lifetime. Tragically, many older Americans suffer in silence, burdened by fear, shame, or impairments that prevent them from speaking out about abuse.

Family Service of RI, under a contract with the Rhode Island Division of Elderly Affairs, provides an after-hours emergency response program to elders in crisis.  

And Jen Etue, who heads the program, will be part of a team at NBC 10 on Friday taking calls from the public on elder abuse between 4:30 and 7:30 p.m.

Thank you to our friends at NBC 10 for this important public service!

--Stephen L. Hug

See the New Logo!

The annual AIDS Walk for Life is coming up Sunday, September 23 benefiting AIDS Project RI, a division of Family Service of RI.

For the first time in the walk's 27 year history--well, at least in recent memory--we have a logo!

Learn more about this year's AIDS Walk for Life by clicking here.  We're looking for teams to walk!!  Sign up now!

Three Dancing Children

Had a planning meeting today for the upcoming Brighter Futures luncheon, which is scheduled for Tuesday, October 2, 2012 at the RI Convention Center.

This luncheon has been an annual happening since 2005, so it's a fairly new event as these things go.  But in its short life it has become a premiere must-attend for the Rhode Island business community, usually attracting 500 or so folks from banking and other sectors.  NBC 10's Patrice Wood has usually been the emcee, and she has always done a great job, setting the right tone and keeping things moving.

The concept: recognizing people or organizations improving life for Rhode Island's children. Last year we saluted one of Time's most influential people in the world, Geoffrey Canada.  His work at the Harlem  Children's Zone inspired development of Family Service of RI's project known as the Providence Children's Initiative. 

The actual "Brighter Futures Award" given to honorees is a print of a pastel drawing entitled "Three Dancing Children" by the internationally known artist Anne Mimi Sammis, who lives in Narragansett. The drawing is a sculpture, too, which you can view here.

Will be announcing the 2012 honoree very soon!  Thanks to all who have supported this critical fundraiser for Family Service of RI.

--Stephen L. Hug

Save the Date: September 23 AIDS Walk for Life

Already thinking about September, even though many of the kids are still in school!

The 27th annual AIDS Walk for Life is slated for Sunday, September 23, starting 9 a.m. on the State House lawn. Actually registration is 9 a.m. and the walk kicks off at 10.

This is a fundraiser for AIDS Project RI, which is a division of Family Service of RI.

Right now we're looking for people to put together walk teams to help us raise money for AIDS Project RI's important work caring for people living with HIV/AIDS, and its work preventing transmission of HIV.

Special salute to First Lady Stephanie Chafee, this year's honorary chair. Barbara Morse Silva from NBC 10's morning show will emcee.

By the way, in addition to raising money, this is an awareness-raiser about HIV/AIDS issues, including HIV prevention. Also, many of the walkers do so in honor of  lost loved ones.

Want some more info?  Please click here.

Late September is one of the best times of year in New England.  Hope you'll get out and join us in this 2.5 mile walk to fight AIDS.

Special thanks to all past walkers.

As the old song goes, we'll "see you in September."

--Stephen L. Hug

On the Radio

Was thinking about the great Donna Summer song "On the Radio" as I pondered this blog post.

As you probably know, Ms. Summer, usually associated with the disco era in the 1970s, lost her battle with cancer recently.  Lot of folks don't know she was a Bostonian.  Great loss to music.

Anyway, Family Service of RI's Dr. Susan Erstling is "on the radio" this Sunday on 94HJY, B101 and Coast 93.3.  Those stations are under the Clear Channel company banner, and broadcast a show called "Infonation" every week hosted by Bill George and Kristin Lessard.  We appreciate their interest in our work!

Runs between 7 and 7:30 a.m.  Dr. Erstling will be talking about the upcoming RI State Victim Assistance Academy, which is made possible through a partnership between Family Service of RI and Roger Williams University.  If you work with victims in any way, the Academy is a must.

Learn more here.

Have a great weekend! To paraphrase Charles Osgood, "We'll see you on the radio."

--Stephen L. Hug

Victims Assistance Academy Starts in July

Just checked in to see if there is still room at the upcoming Rhode Island State Victim Assistance Academy in July and August.

The word is that there is still room, but don't wait much longer.

If you work with crime victims, you might want to take a few moments to learn more, which you can do by clicking here.

This is a project of Family Service of RI and Roger Williams University.

Thanks!

--Stephen L. Hug

Youth Sexual Health & Social Media Conference Slated

AIDS Project RI, a division of Family Service of RI, and other organizations have put together the state's first-ever conference to help improve the sexual health of local youth.

It's called: "Got UR Game On? Meeting the Sexual Health Needs of RI's Youth."

One of the topics is "sexting" and, generally, the effects of technology on the psychological, sexual and relational health of youth.

It's happening Thursday, June 21, 9 to 4 at the Roger Williams University Baypoint Residence & Conference Center, 144 Anthony Road in Portsmouth.

The event’s Honorary Chair is Lieutenant Governor Elizabeth Roberts.
 
The conference is intended for any health care providers, educators, and other community leaders in Rhode Island to help them gain insights and improve their skills related to interacting with Rhode Island’s youth about sexual health issues.

If you're interested, sign up pronto.  Seats are filling up fast!  More info here.

Did You Know About EI?

 Did you know.....

• Family Service of RI's Early Intervention (commonly called "EI") program is designed to address the needs of children, birth to 3, experiencing development delays.

•  Our team of experienced professionals includes educators, social workers, nurses, physical therapists, occupational therapists, speech therapists, nutritionists and interpreters. 

• Services occur in the home or other settings where the child typically spends his/her day. EI also helps families access other services in the community. 

• EI is personalized to meet the needs of each child and family.

 Learn more by clicking here.

Spotlight: AIDS Project RI

First row, L to R, Tom Bertrand, Jim Huseman, Ron Gonscak, Alix Stockwood. 2nd row, L to R, Lia Vaz, Samy Ndayisaba, Peggy Brown, Susan Gagnon, Kim Smith, Katie Davis, Amy Stein, Dolores Brooks, Gordon Cooper, Beverly Case

Resiliency, tenacity, and patience: these are the characteristics all AIDS Project RI staff posses as they make a difference in the lives of the people they serve.
 
Each year, over 350 people benefit from case management, counseling, nutrition, dental health, health insurance assistance, and other services from AIDS Project RI, a division of Family Service of RI.
 
In 2011 the people served came from 33 cities and towns in Rhode Island. In recent years, AIDS Project RI has helped people whose countries-of-origin are over 25 nations throughout the world! Fortunately, AIDS Project RI workers speak English, Spanish, Portuguese, Cape Verdean, French, Swahili, Kirundi, and Kinyarwanda!

Utilizing a holistic and client-centered approach, an individualized care plan is created for every person served. It is important to note that coping with HIV may not be a person’s highest priority in their life—he/she may be dealing with housing, domestic violence, mental health or other issues. The goal is to help the people served address these personal issues, as well as make sure they keep their medical appointments and take their HIV medications.

Over the past year AIDS Project RI has made great strides in expanding its education, prevention and rapid HIV testing programs.

Farewell May!

Can you believe we're almost in June!

In these remaining hours, we'll take a moment to say that May has been National Foster Care Month, and, here at Family Service of RI  there has been a particularly strong emphasis on recruiting loving homes for Rhode Island's children in need.

Our foster care recruiter, Greg Wright, has been working hard to outreach to possible foster moms and dads, and even appeared TWICE on the John DePetro show on NewTalk 630 WPRO and 99.7FM. You can listen to one of his appearances by clicking here.

Of course, the need for someone to open their heart and home to a child in need goes well beyond May, unfortunately.  So, if you're thinking about it, contact Greg by clicking here or call him at 331-1350 ext. 3305.  No obligation.

Before leaving the subject of May, let's also note that our affiliate Lucy's Hearth had a fun Mother's Day-oriented activity.  Anyone could make a donation of any amount and the mom they wanted to honor could receive a special salute from Lucy's Hearth, including a special Mother's Day card and being placed on what we came to call "Lucy's List."  This activity was a project of the Friends of Lucy's Hearth and we thank them for volunteering their time and talent to make this a success!

It's going to be a busy summer!  Watch this space!

--Stephen L. Hug

Looking to Volunteer?

Family Service of RI often looks for volunteers--so if you're in the position to help out, please let us know!

One of the volunteer opportunities is working with websites, video, databases, events, social media, that kind of thing.  Interested? Please email me.  Should be a pretty interesting opportunity, particularly if you're into communications, new media, software programs.

For opportunities in other areas, please click here.

Thanks!

--Stephen L. Hug

Tips to Recognize Signs of Child Sexual Abuse.

Family Service of RI's Matt Munich, from the agency's Trauma & Loss Center, has tips regarding recognizing the signs of child sexual abuse.

Click on his photo below to view a brief video.

Please Support These Restaurants!

In late April, many restaurants across the state participated in Dining Out for Life, benefiting Family Service of RI's AIDS Project RI division.  This is an annual event.

During Dining Out for Life, restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds to AIDS Project RI to help in their work caring for people living with HIV/AIDS.

Since these restaurants were generous to come forward to help in the fight against AIDS, we ask everyone to keep them in mind when making dining plans throughout the year.  We appreciate the restaurants' support--and, in turn, we want to support them!

For the complete list, please click here. We thank them, and thank you!

Save the Date! October 2

Seems funny to write about autumn as we enter the most beautiful time of spring--but wanted to share some news about October.

Family Service of RI has locked in October 2--a Tuesday--at the RI Convention Center for our annual Brighter Futures luncheon.

We started this back in 2004, and it's an opportunity to salute a person or organization contributing to brighter futures for children in the Ocean State.  Last year, our honoree was Geoffrey Canada, whose Harlem Children's Zone inspired our Providence Children's Initiative (see video below).

Thank you for all who have supported this critical annual fundraiser!  Watch this space, as we'll be announcing our 2012 honoree very soon!

--Stephen L. Hug

Training to Better Help Crime Victims

The fourth-annual Rhode Island State Victim Assistance Academy is slated for mid to late summer, and there's still time to sign up!  But don't wait too long, because spaces usually fill quickly!

If you work with crime victims, check this out.  Attendees have included hospital interpreters, advocates for domestic violence victims, people who work with senior citizens and others.

Family Service of Rhode Island and Roger Williams University have partnered to provide this statewide effort to improve the quality of service to crime victims.

Day-long classes take place July 18, August 1, August 8, August 15 and August 22 at the University’s Baypoint Inn and Conference Center in beautiful Portsmouth, RI.

Topics include “Impact of Crime on Victims: Trauma, PTSD, and Direct Services,” “Working with LGBTQQ Youth,” “Cultural Competency in Working with Victims,” “Ethics in Victim Services,” “Victim’s Issues in Mental Health,” “Caring for Elder Victims,” and much more.

The cost: $50 for victim advocate/bachelor level, $125 for CEU-seeking participants.

Questions? Please contact Meghan Martinez at 401-331-1350, ext. 3200 or email her at Martinezme@familyserviceri.

You can apply on-line here.

--Stephen L. Hug

Facebooking

With all the Facebook news recently, it occurred to me that we haven't asked you to "like" us on Facebook through this blog.

If you're on Facebook, we hope you'll take a few moments to do so.  Please click right here.

Family Service of RI updates once, maybe twice a day.  Currently we have more than 930 followers.

We hope you'll be one soon. Thanks!

--Stephen L. Hug

Your Workplace Could Help a Needy Child

Family Service of RI's Treatment Foster Care Program works hard to outreach to potential foster parents for needy boys and girls in Rhode Island.

Greg Wright, whom I refer to as Family Service of RI's "foster care guru," and the foster care team  have been fortunate to have had support from companies in the real estate, banking and hospital industries over the past year.  This Saturday, by the way, we'll have a table at the Warwick Mall, from noon to 4, in front of Gymboree.  We'll be talking to anybody who stops by about the very special way foster parents transform the lives of children.  If you're in the area, stop by and say hi.  (And say you heard about it from reading this blog!)

Even if you are unable to become a foster parent yourself, you can still help Rhode Island's most vulnerable children.  Invite Greg to set up a table at your workplace and give him the opportunity to speak with your colleagues at lunchtime, for example, or whatever works for you. Or perhaps you have some creative ideas on how to outreach in your workplace.  Greg is open to your suggestions!

Please help. It doesn't cost a thing! Contact Greg at 401-331-1350 ext. 3305, or email him at wrightgr@familyserviceri.org.

As we like to say: "Some Day a Child Will Thank You."

--Stephen L. Hug

Radio Resources

"Radio is a sound salvation," sang Elvis Costello in the late 1970s when he performed his song Radio, Radio.

And that's true for non-profits like Family Service of RI, which need multiple ways to get the word out without spending lots of money.

Local radio is one of the resources.  If you're interested in what's doing with community organizations, check out "Saturday Morning News with Steve Klamkin" which runs 6 to 8 a.m. on 630AM/99.7 FM WPRO on, of course, Saturday.  A great listen, as you start off your weekend, to find things to do.

Sundays kick off on B101, 94HJY and Coast 93.3 at 7 a.m. with "Infonation." Switch over to 630AM/99.7 FM WPRO and catch "Cumulus Community" at 8 a.m. followed by "Amazing Women" at 8:30. These shows may also air on other stations that are part of the Cumulus broadcasting group, like Lite Rock 105 and 92 PROFM.

We like the fact that "Cumulus Community" and "Amazing Women" post their shows as podcasts afterwards.Check out this "Cumulus Community" show which focuses on Family Service of RI's child trauma & loss center as well as the local response to human trafficking.

Of course, these are not the only local radio resources. Our friends at Latino Public Radio have a lot of local programming, as does Rhode Island Public Radio.  And let's not forget weekdays 11 to noon WADK's Art Berluti does community interviews on Aquidneck Island.

There are also daily talk shows on WPRO and WHJJ which sometimes focus on the great and important work of community organizations. Catch a podcast of our foster parent recruiter Greg Wright on  the "John DePetro Show on Newstalk 630 WPRO and 99.7 FM."

Whew!  That's a lot, and I'm sure I've forgotten some. Email me if you want to add to this list.

--Stephen L. Hug

RI Model for Child Trauma

Did you know there is a Rhode Island Model for child trauma?

Earlier this year, Family Service of RI, along with the Department of Children, Youth and Families (DCYF) and the Providence Police, showcased it at a national conference.

In fact, the Child Welfare League of America sees us as a leader.  "I consider Family Service of RI, the Rhode Island Department of Children, Youth and Families, and the Providence Police to be leaders when it comes to infusing the trauma-informed approach into the work of child welfare," said Julie Collins of the League.  "They have been doing this much longer than most agencies and we are excited they agreed to share their wisdom and experience."

The RI Model involves:

• 24/7 response to children and families exposed to trauma;

• A focus on prevention and early intervention;

• A Family Service of RI worker riding along with the Providence Police on routine patrols as well as during narcotic raids;

• Increasing knowledge through cross-training on trauma-related subjects;

• Monthly case consultation meetings including other community partners;

• Family Service of RI being provided space at DCYF for trauma consultations and referrals.

"When a child and family enter into a state's child welfare system it is usually the result of abuse, neglect, crime, violence or something related," said Susan Erstling, Ph.D., who heads Family Service of RI's trauma and loss center.  "The idea is to move quickly to respond to the stress to lessen potential lasting effects."

Gay Bingo Thursday

Looking for a crazy time while helping fight HIV/AIDS?

Sounds like you need to go to Gay Bingo!!

On the third Thursday of most months, AIDS Project RI (a division of Family Service of RI) and our friends at AIDS Care Ocean State have a wild time with a lot of friends over at the Riviera Bingo Palace in Cranston.

Next Gay Bingo is this Thursday!!

This is a fundraiser for AIDS Project RI and AIDS Care Ocean State--so while you are playing bingo and laughing yourself silly over the antics of  host Miss Kitty Litter, you'll be helping people living with HIV/AIDS in Rhode Island.

On June 21 a special Gay Pride Bingo will be held for RI Pride!

This is a legendary event that has been going on for years!

For more info, click here.

Have You a Last Minute Mother's Day Challenge?

As this post is being written, we are just hours from Mother's Day.  Hope your favorite mom is doing fine and you have found a wonderful way to honor her.

But--maybe you'd like to do something different this year.  You know your favorite mom cares about helping those in need. Hmm...

So maybe this year get your mom on Lucy's List!  This is a fundraiser for our affiliate Lucy's Hearth, which cares for homeless mothers and their children. Make a donation of any amount, and we'll put your favorite mom on the honoree list.

It's so easy to do. And it's for a great cause!

Check it out here.

Thanks!!

RI Children Need a Happier Mother's Day!

There are children in the Ocean State looking for loving homes.  They are looking for foster moms (and dads) to enjoy Mother's Day with, and the other holidays too!

Over the years, Family Service of RI has found homes for many children, but, unfortunately, the need continues.

During this National Foster Care Month, we're asking Rhode Islanders to think about opening their heart and home to one of these youngsters.  Many families have done so over the years, but there are children still in need of homes.

Learn more by attending the Foster Care Information Open House this coming Wednesday, May 16, 5 to 7 p.m. at our 134 Thurbers Avenue, Providence office.  Just take the Thurbers Avenue exit off 95.  You'll see a mill building on your left when you come to the end of the exit. That's where we're located.  Take a left at the lights and take your first left into the parking lot.  Enter the building through the entrance on the right.  Head straight down the hallway until you come to our office (big logo on the door). 

Directions also available with this Mapquest link.

Give Greg Wright a call at 331-1350, ext 3305, or email him. Contact him even if you are unable to attend.

Some of what Greg will tell you is that foster parents get a weekly stipend, a clothing allowance for the child, 24/7 on-call support and more.  We partner with our foster parents and foster children.  You'll receive comprehensive support.

Thank you for giving this some thought.  And thank you for taking time to hear from one of our foster parents, Liz:

Training to Better Care for Victims

Once again, we're teaming up with Roger Williams University to improve the quality of service to crime victims.
 
In July and August we'll be providing our annual State Victim Assistance Academy at the University's Portsmouth campus. It's open to professionals who work with victims and survivors of crime.

Academy attendees have included staff from the Rhode Island Attorney General’s Office as well as detectives, advocates for the homeless and for domestic violence victims, hospital interpreters, elder affairs workers and others within the public and private sectors.

For more information and the on-line application, click here.

Talking Foster Care on John DePetro's Show

Greg Wright, who works tirelessly to find loving homes for children in need, was a guest on the John DePetro show on Newstalk 630 WPRO and 99.7 FM on Tuesday.

If you missed it on the radio, thanks to Mr. DePetro and the folks at WPRO, you can hear the interview as a podcast. Check it out here.

If you're thinking about looking into becoming a foster parent but have a lot of questions, give a listen.

And/or chat with Greg at 401-331-1350 ext. 3305 or email him at wrightgr@familyserviceri.org.

He's holding an information open house on Wednesday, May 16 by the way.  Starts at 5 and goes until about 7 p.m. Located at our offices at 134 Thurbers Ave. in Providence--just moments off the Thurbers Ave exit on Rt. 95.

Think foster parenting. Some day a child will thank you!

Congrats to Dr. Lusi!

Congratulations to Dr. Susan Lusi, who has been serving as Providence's interim school superintendent.  Last night she was named officially as superintendent by the Providence School Board!

Congrats to Dr. Lusi!  We look forward to working with her and her team in the years ahead!

On with the Independent Man Tuesday

Our foster care guru, Greg Wright, will be on the radio with WPRO's John DePetro, known as the "Independent Man," on Tuesday just after the 10 a.m. news.

It's National Foster Care Month, and Greg, as always, is working hard to find loving homes for children in RI.

We appreciate the support of Mr. DePetro!  Tune in Tuesday!

If you're interested in learning more about becoming a foster parent, contact Greg by emailing him.

Or call him at 401-331-1350 ext. 3305.

Some day a child will thank you!

Thanks Providence Journal for Helping Homeless Mothers

If you pick up today's Providence Journal, you'll spot on page D4 a wonderful blurb about Lucy's Hearth's Mother's Day-related fundraiser. 

Thank you Providence Journal for your help in getting the word out about how people can make this Mother's Day extra special by helping the homeless mothers and children at Lucy's Hearth.

Don't know what we're talking about?  Check out D4 in today's Providence Journal!  You can also find out by visiting Lucy's Hearth's website: www.lucyshearth.org

Thank You WPRO, B101, 94HJY and Coast 93.3

Just a quick note to thank a number of radio stations who spread the word this weekend about our affiliate, Lucy's Hearth, and the special Mother's Day fundraiser happening.

Actually, the fundraiser is not on Mother's Day, but it is leading up to Mother's Day!

Here's how it works: a donation, any donation, to Lucy's Hearth, a homeless shelter for women and their children, means you can have a special card sent to your favorite mom--your mom, your daughter, a friend, grandmother etc.  And Lucy's Hearth, if you like, will post your honoree's name on what is being called Lucy's List on Lucy's Hearth's website. A bunch of names are already there.

WPRO, on Saturday morning, interviewed Lucy's Hearth's director, Jenn Barrera, on it's "Saturday Morning News with Steve Klamkin" program. And 94HJY, Coast 93.3 and B101 did the same on Sunday on "Infonation." The topic, of course, was the fundraiser, but during the interviews Jenn was able to speak about the work of Lucy's Hearth.

With Mother's Day next weekend, we appreciate the boost!

Should also mention that the Mother's Day fundraiser is a project of the Friends of Lucy's Hearth, which is a volunteer group. Thanks to them too!!

Is Your Favorite Mother on Lucy's List?

Our affiliate, Lucy's Hearth, in Middletown, RI is holding a special Mother's Day fundraiser.  They are providing an opportunity to honor your favorite mother while helping homeless mothers and their children.

Many folks have already submitted their favorite mother's name; how about you?

See who is on the list by clicking here.

Lucy's Hearth is a homeless shelter for women and their children.

We're Blogging Again!

We are blogging again! Hope to provide many updates about the work of Family Service of RI. Watch this space!

"I Have Certainly Learned How Important The Work At Family Service of Rhode Island Is"

Recently, a Lincoln School senior, Lauren Van Schepen, did a short internship at Family Service of Rhode Island.

Her internship particularly focused on the agency's Afia Center. The Center provides a range of services to persons living with HIV/AIDS, and is located at the Mathewson Street Church in Providence.

Lauren, 18, is the daughter of Kris and Randall Van Schepen of Cranston, Rhode Island. She will be attending Wellesley College in the fall.

She wrote the following article after the conclusion of her internship:

Armed with three years of what I considered rigorous high school training at Lincoln School, I felt more than equipped for my task ahead – writing an article highlighting the Afia Center, Family Service of Rhode Island’s HIV/AIDS facility in downtown Providence. I had written essays for years, edited for almost as long, and had recently completed the most dreaded essay of all time – the college admissions essay. I could do this, no question. I was determined to decide whether or not non-profit work was for me, and was sure I would come out of my brief two and a half week internship with new direction and focus, much more guided in respect to my future. I am so thankful that “career exploration” was not the only direction my work took.

As confident as I had convinced myself I was, the prospect of an internship frightened me. My ability was not in question, but my motivation. Did I really want to do this? The planning was fine, but as the first day approached I wondered if I should have considered staying on campus, reveling in my last days as a high schooler. My first day at Family Service of Rhode Island only made me more apprehensive. An acronym-filled meeting, mentions of fingerprinting, and constantly ringing phones led me to believe there was something happening here I had absolutely no understanding of. I wondered how I would keep DCYF, CPC, DMH, and RIPEC all straight when the only acronym that I could recall was SOS.

But it only took a few questions to start the gradual demystifying of Family Service of Rhode Island, and for me those questions were in regard to the Afia Center. Begun in 2003, the Afia Center for Health and Wholeness is housed in Mathewson St. Church. Unanimously chosen by clients, providers, and organizers, the church was approached about hosting the Center. After meetings with the congregation and discussion about the nature of AIDS, the congregation agreed to open its doors. Soon, however, it was clear that the relationship between the members of Afia and the church was more than a simple issue of housing. Many members of Afia have begun to attend Sunday morning services at Mathewson St., and members’ weddings and funerals have taken place in the church. With each interview or casual conversation I learned more about the good Family Service workers and volunteers were able to do in Afia Center members’ lives. The recurring theme, however, was how much the Family Service of Rhode Island workers learned in their service.

Going to the Afia Center only convinced me more fully of this important aspect of the center. When you enter the church it is soon apparent that this is not a place divided by knowledge or health, where one group has the answers and the other waits to be enlightened. The Afia Center is a place where each person benefits from the presence of every other, and all social constraints are left behind. The divisions any outsider might anticipate were nonexistent, and the care and treatment that was directed toward the members very obviously extended to the volunteers and workers as well. This was a place with no acronyms, no fingerprints, and no distracting phone calls. This was the personal connection made possible by the work I had seen in the office, the result of hours of acronym-making, fingerprint-taking, phone-call-making people. As I left I remembered how many people I had spoken to who had visited the Afia Center, not letting the distance between office and center keep them away from seeing the results of their work.

I feel as though I have been able to reap all the benefits of the work done at Family Service without having to do any of it myself. I was able to see firsthand the amazing community relationships that are formed surrounding the agency’s programs, and also the encouragement those programs provide to their clients. Although I have not ended this internship with a clear direction for my future studies, I’ve learned something much more valuable about the importance of each individual, and the importance of learning from those around us as well as sharing what we know. And although I was not able to cause a visible change at Family Service of Rhode Island, perhaps someone will read this article and be motivated to volunteer, or provide funds for a struggling program, or simply become more aware of the issues surrounding them here in Rhode Island. I may never be able to remember what the acronyms stand for, or be able to be on three phone calls at once, but I have certainly learned how important the work at Family Service of Rhode Island is. Who knows, maybe, just maybe, someone else mistakenly hangs up on someone, or has an accident with a pesky rolling office chair, and that’s all right. There is always something to learn, as well as to teach, and perhaps in my own learning I had more to offer than I realized.